While it is possible to have a dog that is willful but not intelligent, it is more likely that your willful dog is very intelligent. This can be frustrating to deal with as an owner, especially if you are unwilling or unable to give your dog the time and attention it needs.
Whether you have hours or time to give or just a few minutes a day, it is a good idea to enroll your dog in some sort of training. Many pet stores offer training classes for dog and owner. Another option, which may be more expensive, is to hire a trainer to come train your dog in your home. That way, you can work training around your schedule.
As you will learn or may already know, consistency in discipline is key. This goes for everyone in your household. It is important to have all family members on the same page when it comes to what behaviors are acceptable and which ones are not. Differences in discipline will lead to confusion for your dog and is more likely to lead to disobedience.
Similarly, allowing your dog to refuse a command because you lack time or patience to enforce it will make your dog more likely to disobey future commands. Dog treats, when used appropriately, are a valuable training tool. All dogs like treats. They will be more willing to learn if they know that they can expect a reward.
As each behavior becomes habit, rewards can be changed to petting, scratching and “attaboys”. Just as you should be consistent in disciplining, you should also be consistent in rewarding. A dog that frequently becomes bored is more likely to misbehave while trying to amuse itself, much like an unattended child.
Giving your dog daily time and attention will go a long way. Investing in dog products, such as toys, will go a long way with helping to keep your dog amused. Proper training, maintaining consistency in discipline and rewards, preventing boredom and giving regular attention to your willful dog will go a long way to improving your owner/pet relationship.
